Valentine’s Day AKA National Sex Day is celebrated on February 14th. Why force love on one day, how about making any other day of the year as your Valentine’s Day! If your not ready to break from the traditional Valentine’s Day, then Cheers! Let’s enjoy a chocolate Cherry Cha Cha Cocktail.
Holiday Is Coming Up
There is a holiday coming up called Valentines Day. Love it or hate it there is no escaping the hearts and Cupid’s that pop up in the stores. In fact, we see this red decor love fest displays right after Christmas.
What is Valentines Day? A day to profess your love to someone with chocolate and roses? Let’s not forget all the lingerie that men buy their sweethearts.
Valentine’s Day AKA National Sex Day
My sister calls Valentines Day national Sex day. Why? well give a woman roses, chocolate, and sexy panties, they expect to get lucky.
So as a woman we expected to shave our legs, don these panties and give our men this wild night of passion. All because of some little Cupid with an arrow says it is Valentines Day. In reality, that scenario just feels forced.
I don’t know about you but sex feels better when wild and passionate and unplanned. When it planned nothing seems to go right, either you are so stressed out, feels routine and boring, you just simply not in the mood. Now, these chocolates and fancy panties are supposed to make all that stress and not feeling in the mood stop for 20 minutes of sex?
Celebrate Any Other Day
I say celebrate Valentine’s Day on a day not expecting roses, like March 3rd. Why? Because it isn’t forced and if is sex that day it would be mind-blowing!
Now some of you will say, but I have kids. Yeah, I get it wild passionate spontaneous sex with kids might not work. Well, when kids are in bed go to your room put on some hooker shoes and surprise your man. Tonight you are not a mom, instead, you are some wild and exotic woman turning hour man on.
Don’t come up with an excuse like, I can’t wear those shoes. Look you’re not walking in them just put on sit on the bed and call him in. If do it, right honey, those shoes will never see pavement. It called the art of an illusion.
If your man asks what your doing say I’m giving you a surprise valentine day. When doing something unexpected and out the normal, you be surprised at how much you really enjoy it. It good to step out the little box we are in.
Bottom line is, sometimes it better if we call the shots when comes to the National sex day, oops I mean Valentine’s Day. Don’t settle for the forced gratuity of pleasure in exchange for flowers and chocolate on February 14th. Pick a day and make that your Valentine’s Day.
Be A Teenager Again
Pretend you are a teenager and do something out the ordinary and most of all make something you enjoy. Trust me, tune into your inner sexy goddess, we all have it within and own a Valentine’s Day, any day you want to celebrate it on.
Chocolate Cherry Cha Cha
Ok so maybe your not quite that ready to break from Valentine’s Day Traditions. That is ok, but the thought is in the back of your head an that is good. So let’s relax now with a wonderful cocktail, the Chocolate Cherry Cha Cha.
Cherry, chocolate, and a bubbly cocktail! This is Valentine's Day
- 1 ounce cherry rum
- 1/2 ounces whipped cream vodka
- 1 ounce chocolate vodka
- 1 ounce club soda
Place the rum, and vodkas in a tall cocktail shaker with ice.
Shake vigorously and pour the drink into a glass.
Top off with club soda and ENJOY!